Frequently asked questions
What should I wear?
We’re more concerned with meeting your real life needs than with what you wear.
At East Dean in the morning and especially for the All Age Service our style is relaxed, so dress “casual / smart” and you will fit right in. At Friston and Jevington we tend to be a little more traditional, but again, it is not your clothes that matter, but what’s going on inside you!
The offering – how much should I give?
New to church or a visitor? There is no expectation or obligation whatsoever to give in the offering. Instead of wanting you to give something we want you to receive something!
Can I sit anywhere?
Yes – there are no reserved seats – except the Rector’s! We are a friendly family and want nothing better than for more people to come and experience faith in Jesus Christ.
Are children welcome?
Yes! Yes! Yes! – children are particularly well catered for during all morning services at East Dean with our Lighthouse Club for 3-14 year olds, plus toys available for younger children.
What about people with disabilities or in wheelchairs?
East Dean Church has an area of flexible seating which can easily make space for people in wheelchairs, and this seating is designed for those who may find wooden pews uncomfortable.
Are you “happy clappy” or “traditional” in style?
Neither. We are committed to worshipping God in a variety of styles. We recognise that one size doesn’t necessarily fit all, so we respect and enjoy both traditional and contemporary worship.
Can I take communion?
Yes – if you are baptised and confirmed. If you are a baptised communicant of other churches you are also welcome to receive Communion at East Dean Friston and Jevington.
Can I get married in Church?
If you are thinking about getting married – congratulations! The Church of England has a list of “qualifying conditions” to determine who can legally be married in any particular church building. Contact Becca Parke (edfjbenefice@hotmail.com) for more info.
Who can be baptised?
Anyone who lives in the parish or comes to church.
We offer both Baptisms (sometimes called ‘christenings’) and Thanksgivings .
Aren’t Christians boring and have no fun?
Yes – some are – but no more or less than anyone else. And Jesus isn’t boring indeed it is exciting and challenging to follow him.
Can I be a Christian without going to church?
Church is not something we “go” to – church is simply what a group of Christians are. It’s an integral part of being a Christian to meet regularly with others, to praise God, hear from him, encourage others, for the challenges of the week ahead. Ill-health or infirmity may prevent some from meeting, and we try to offer them continuing fellowship and support at home.
Can I find out more about the Christian faith without actually going to church?
Absolutely! The best way is to sign up for the Christianity Explored and/or Alpha Courses. Contact David Baker (423266) for more information. Alternatively pop in to East Dean church and help yourself to a free copy of one of the booklets there.